Thursday, 03 August 2006

  • Some quick thoughts

    I just wanted to share some thoughts that came to mind tonight during our meeting after VBS.  Recently in Sunday school we've been discussing the different qualitities that make up a good leader.  Last Sunday some people brought up the question of whether this really applies to everyone, since not every may face a leadership position in life.  My stance on this topic is that regardless of who you are, there will always be someone looking up to you.  In reality, positions of leadership can be superficial.  They don't mean much if the person in that position does not have the attention or respect of the people under them.  On the other hand, the social structures in which we live from day to day automatically place us in positions of authority, both obvious and subtle.  This is most apparent in the relationships between people of varying ages.  Whether they realize it or not, older people set an example for younger people in terms of behavior and values.  Every night this week, I've seen this phenomenon at work in the classrooms between the young adult workers and the little children.  When the workers and enthusiastic and participate in the activities, the children are more willing to participate, too.  But when the workers start goofing off with each other or with the kids, the kids become rowdy and unmanageable.  Furthermore, when the children see that some people are afraid to exercise authority, they torture them mercilessly.  That is why I believe learning about leadership is important for everyone and not just those in prominent positions.  One must be able to carry oneself with confidence in order to set a good example.  Some might argue that if everyone was a chief, there would be no warriors to follow, but I say that only someone with a true knowledge and understanding of leadership can be a follower, too.

Comments (2)

  • mynameisstephen
    I definetly agree. But also, it's worth saying that some goofing off with the kids actually make them more manageable. At least, for me it as (but I of course also are other things with the kids, like stern, or harsh, or gentle, or compassionate or whatever).
  • MiCheLLy789
    Funny. A few years back when I was escorting VBS kids too, I made the exact same points as you, just less eloquently.
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